Friday, August 10, 2007

The cashier auntie gave a free magic ball to Zann.
No purchase needed, just make some noise inside NTUC
and will get a 'gift'... hee

These lovely mini cupcakes (kiddy size) were from Angelz Cup.
I was attracted to their kids-sized ones at 60cents each.
But the cake flavour only comes in chocolate.
I am addicted.
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Zann was playing her toys inside her playpen,
halfway she threw out one of the toys and hit me.
It was painful. I told AL not to hit or shout.
Cos I wanted to use soft approach and
I believed that Zann will listen.
True enough, she came over and kissed and
hugged me after listening to what I said.
After all, she is still in the learning stage.
When I was young, I was punished for crying.
I was labeled as an
useless crying baby at home.
And my punishment was rubbing chilli on my lips.
Sadly, it never occurred to my parents that words and actions
they used on me has deeply hurt my self worth, even in public.
And yes, it has left a big impact on me.
When zann was labeled as crying baby from AL.
It triggered my immediate strong reaction.
Why can't he see my point of dealing with the action
without putting Zann down ?
I warned him never use this word on Zann.